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Do You Want to Play Big or Small?

by Amy Barnes, MBA MA LMHC
Until recently I didn’t realize that I had a choice. Then I realized how small I had been playing. I could make lots of excuses about why I was playing small, not working up to my full potential or using all my gifts and talents in most areas of my life. The unpleasant truth was that I had chosen to show up being less than I could be.

I could make lots of excuses. I could blame my childhood or the fact that I felt it would take too much of time and energy or that I would have to be different than who I am or others wouldn’t like me or I just didn’t believe in myself.

I think the truth was closer to I have been doing the same thing for a long time and had fallen into a rut. Not necessarily an unpleasant rut. I like my coworkers. I thoroughly enjoy working with the vast majority of my clients.

I’ve been doing this for almost 15 years and it’s time I gave myself a promotion. As a body centered coach and therapist I’ve learned more tricks, more tools more ways of working with people to get them from where they are to where they want to be much more quickly and easier. I need to appreciate my own growth and new skills. I need to listen to myself and trust my gut to know it’s time to do things differently. It’s time for me to spend more time in my own Zone of Genius.

Just as I support and empower my clients to be the best they can be I also need to do that for myself. So in the coming months you’ll see changes in my website and changes in how I go about doing business so I can reach more people in a way that is best for both myself and my clients.

I encourage you to play big, not stay small and I’ll do the same for me. In the meantime contact me if you feel I can support you in going from where you are now to where you want to be in all areas of life – both work and play.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Until next time,

Amy

Appreciating Both Indiana’s and Your Own Essence Qualities

IMG_0402Today is for me one of Indiana’s finest. Crystal clear air, warm and sunny, wisps of clouds in the air and the glow of leaves from green to golden yellow to bright red and all the colors in between and more. I feel blessed just walking outside. If Indiana was a person today would reflect its essence, its soul, its highest self. Today Indiana with the cooperating weather is clearly operating in Indiana’s zone of genius.

As a coach that is exactly what I want to help people do. To shine. To thrive. To glow. To operate in people just like you, live, work and play in their Zone of Genius. What is it that you love to do that both creates abundance and serves others?

The first step is to both know and feel comfortable with your authentic self. Who is it you most want to be? What is your life purpose? What makes you happy? What makes you sad? Many of us tend to skip the knowing ourselves first part. We want to move on, move quickly. We listen to what others, well meaning friends, relative, teachers, parents and spouses tell us we would be good at or what we ought to do.

Maybe it’s time for you to trust your gut. What if you said what you really wanted? Would anyone listen? The saddest thing for me is to see a person who has just completed many years of college and even post graduate training to please someone else. For instance “Bill” went to law school and became a successful lawyer. However, “Bill” was not happy. He had gone to law school only to please his father. Now he was ready to discover what he really wanted to do?

What makes you uniquely you? What do you enjoy best? How do you shine and what puts a smile on your face.

Like this glorious day when Indiana is at its finest, when are you at your finest?

Until next time,

Amy Barnes, Life Coach for Leadership and Transformation